Are They Your Twin Flame Or Soul Mate?

We’ve all been fed the romantic movie story of two people fall in love, kiss, marry, and have a baby. Sometimes, when we fall in love, we’re just so enthralled that there is actually someone out there that loves us for who we are that we’re done with relationship shopping and satisfied with what we’ve got. There’s nothing wrong with that.

But if you’re one of those people who is actually wanting more – you don’t want to fall in love with just anyone, you want THE one, then this article is for you.

Does everyone have a twin flame?

A person’s soul isn’t a limited resource – it belongs to the limitless energy of the infinite and All That Is. You don’t just have one “twin flame” – i.e. a person who shares your soul frequency imprint – you have many. They may be a brother or sister, a parent or friend, or people you have never meet nor ever will meet. They may be alive now, in the past, and in future. However what we call a “twin flame” is someone who has been born, roughly the same time as you, and in a body and gender that you will find sexually attractive, who, if you follow your heart’s calling (dharma), will arise on your life path for you to bond mutually and romantically with.

A twin flame relationship isn’t guaranteed for everyone – mostly it requires the preceding commitment to live your life on your terms no matter what – regardless of whether you meet your twin flame or maintain a relationship with them. What’s the difference between a soul mate and a twin flame? A soul mate is someone with whom, prior to this incarnation, you have made a soul contract with in order to learn something in this life important for your progress towards living your dharma. A soul mate is generally someone who will help you on your path to finding your twin flame (if you have one in this life).

Relationships with soul mates can often be challenging, and may end in heartbreak – ultimately, like a twin flame, they are here to teach you unconditional love for self and other, but may need to wake you up to this through the relationship ending rather than it continuing.

How do I meet my twin flame? Firstly, it’s important to know your own frequency – i.e. who do you feel like in your body when you feel like love​? Try and remember a time in your life when you had no needs to be anything, do anything, prove anything or go anywhere – perhaps as far back as being a little baby. Try and remember what feeling like this felt like in your body – then keep feeling it. That’s your soul frequency, that your twin flame will share. Keep feeling that feeling in your body of who you feel like when you feel like love, and do things that feel like that.

Rinse and repeat.

This will set you on the path of your dharma. When you are living your dharma, your strong magnetic force will attract your twin flame to live theirs, too. Meeting them will arise naturally, as part of living your normal life. They will be attracted to doing the same things you do and being the same places you are, because your soul magnet will simply be so strong.

I think I’ve met my twin flame, but we keep breaking up. What do I do? This is a question I get a lot, and whilst the answer is easy, it’s not so easy to do if we are feeling heartbreak. You simply must keep living your soul frequency as you feel like when you feel like love in your body. This is the frequency of “Rei-Ki” – the union of male and female life energy. This is the energy of your twin flame frequency. Loving yourself fully and completely, and loving whatever your heart calls you to do without regret or shame will simply transmit the healing energy that will help your twin flame do the same – and draw them to you rather than repel them away. If it doesn’t, then this person probably isn’t a twin flame – they are a soul mate here to trigger you on a path of unconditional self love as preparation for meeting your twin flame mate.